Is that a lot of people feed on drama.
The even more frightening truth is, they feed on drama as unconsciously as they breathe oxygen.
So, how do you deal with such people?
Firstly, you identify them:
- who in your life loves drama more than a conversation
- who is always complaining
- who loves to get into blaming or fighting instead of speaking maturely like adults
And then, whenever they react, do not react. Do not even tell them politely what they are ignoring. They are triggering you, and you are not supposed to respond at all.
This is how you take the drama way from drama addicts.
For a caveat, this is not a mature way of dealing with relationships. You should rather never deal like this in your good, thriving relationships. However, what I also know is that there are some relationships you cannot eject out of your life completely. This is how you eject their drama out of your life and choose your peace.
The number of times this has worked for me is amazing. The number of years it took me to understand this is astounding. However, that is how life is. We take our blows before it allows us to glow.