They will not understand you.
They will blame you.
They will not listen to you.
They will not try to have a two way conversation.
They will call your need for conversation “anger”.
They will answer in one word for something you want a deep conversation on.
They will switch things to “you don’t understand” but will never explain, even if you ask them to explain.
They will say things have changed, while doing the same things over and over again.
They will show you in a thousand ways that you don’t matter, but will say you do. And mess with your mind.
They think they are the victim in the relationship because you held your ground.
And you know, by all means it is okay to get out of that relationship.
But, please bless them in your heart. And do it again. And again. And once again.
Because what they did to you hurt. Don’t do it to anyone.
I am not saying still be in that physical or verbal space with them. Maybe you would move on. But as you think of them, and you would, bless them. It will free you, before it frees them.
And yes, you don’t need to be in touch. As a matter of fact, you shouldn’t be in touch, if it hurts you. But never stop blessing.
Because no one knows it better than you, on how it feels on being blamed.