Why do we lose our friends?

Friends that were close once, and then stop being friends.

Friends that we pick as friends, but later on we move on from them. Because we never saw them for the fact that they never deserved to be our friends.

Friends where almost everything is right to the point of trusting each other blindly, and then one fine day your friend thinks you are plotting a move.

I have unfortunately stumbled upon an unwanted yet much-needed truth of life, which is you will lose relationships all of the time. Friends, family, and all other relationships you didn’t expect to lose, in ways you didn’t expect.

But I do think it is important to sit with yourself to mourn the loss of those relationships. Like kids do. By mourning I do not mean literally crying, but to allow yourself to process those emotions. And do that over and over again.

At the same time, I like this video too: