A man met with an accident, and clung to a branch.
Shouted to God, help me!
God asked, “Would you trust me?”
God asked once again. He responded the same.
“So leave the branch!”
The next morning, the villagers saw a corpse hanging to the branch, while the ground was two feet away.
This is what is the matter with trust. When we go ahead with trusting God, we need to surrender. But if we surrender to God on a conditional basis, it helps to remember that God is the most jealous lover. He wants you to love only Him and no one else. If you do, there is nothing that can stop you!
Okay, so I have finally decided to give up on creating Insta reels.
Not because I can’t. Rather because it is distracting.
Creating a video requires a lot of effort. And a lot of screen time. Which is not the best use of my time.
Also, as I thought deeper, even if my reels get viral, even if I become a great influencer because of reels, even if each reel of mine hits a million views, I am encouraging mini content which anyway has very little impact for inducing change in viewers. Especially on a platform like Instagram where everything is designed to make you waste your time and kill your attention, I want to be someone who actually makes people NOT waste their time by creating text-only images.
The best part? They can be scheduled through Facebook Creator instead of actually installing the app.
So maybe yes, reels are trending. However, I am way happy with working on LinkedIn and Twitter, while creating text-only pics on Instagram. Instead of working on “virality”, I’ll work on my originality and let my tribe fall in love with who I really am – a words girl, not a video girl 🙂
When people show you who they are, believe them, said Oprah.
Do not confuse their one-time goodness with their nature of not giving a damn to you. Do not confuse their one-time kindness with their all-time rudeness. Do not confuse their one-time attention with their lack of attention all the time.
Protecting yourself is super power.
With that, it is also important to know that their reality does not affect your mindset.
Know their truth, distance yourself from them, yet at the same time, never think bad about them.
See them for who they could be while keeping yourself away from who they are!
Sometimes all I have is sympathy for our parents’ generation.
Their parents saw the partition of the nation – leaving their country, their childhood, all that they called “theirs”, to come to another place just to survive.
In this need for survival, was the generation of our parents born.
Thus, the upbringing they got was of stress, not having enough time, and always lack of means.
Which is why our parents are the way they are. They have been conditioned so. They were never taught to love. Perhaps because they were never loved. And then one fine day, we pop up and expect them to be cool because that is what we are surrounded by – cool kids just like us.
Now that we know, we can still do what we want to do, while being respectful of who they are. It isn’t just for them, it is for the acknowledgement of how much they are trying to adapt, because they care for you:)
The body – how it responds to chemical reactions is very very weird.
A few days back I mentioned how I bingewatched Dill Mill Gayye on a weekend. The TV show, in many ways, was an inspiration for the people of my generation. The cute people, the pure love, the sparks flying at workplace – everything.
Until I spent some time alone for so many years, getting to know the reality.
This morning I was reminded of one instance from the show – where the male protagonist goes on with a friend and feigns as her husband in front of her family, so that her family members stop pressing her for marriage. He does all this without informing the female protagonist, with whom he is deeply in love with.
Today, just by remembering that instance, I was sent into a state of feeling like crying, as to how this could happen.
Of course, a lot of this relates to the past mistakes I made.
Which brings me to the question – do we really forgive people or does our body remember everything?
If the body remembers it, it is up to the mind to practice focussed forgiveness – for a long, long period of time. Even when it is not asked for. Not for the other person. So that we go beyond our limitations that didn’t even exist.