Many years ago when my parents were looking for prospects for my sisters and finally settled on one, they were still unhappy.
Reason: Their prospective son-in-law did not have his own home.
While my parents were bidding on my sister’s security, I think security is defined in many more ways today.
For example, I do not have a home to my name. Nor do I plan to buy one.
But of course, I have taken care of financial, emotional and individual security in more than one way.
And feel never left “alone” for not having a home.
I guess it is all that is about life.
Assign a practical value to everything you think is difficult to comprehend. Your detached emotions will figure out everything for you.