- Charisma without substance
- Loud voice
- Entitlement
- Demeaning others
- Stating your claims as modus operandi of the world
All of the above are masks disguised as confidence.
True confidence includes but is not limited to:
- Being kind (and meaning it)
- Being happy for others’ happiness (even though you might want to be envious)
- Being curious instead of being judgemental
- Letting people be
- Staying true to your word
- Bringing a positive energy into every room you walk into
- Having a standard so high that people run away from doing anything mediocre around you
Confidence is having the courage to show up, each time it isn’t easy to.