Awesome difficulties arise, not because we are unfortunate, rather because we are blessed to be able to get abundance of learnings draped in difficult situations. You always have an abundance. The difference between a happy cum successful person and an unsuccessful person is that they have different psychology. As Pareto said, in a different way, 80 percent of all results are psychology and 20 percent are mechanics. The goal is not to win over other people, the goal is to win over the human mind: so that it you can bless it instead of it doing the otherwise.
Psychology baby psychology!