If at any point of time you are looking for someone to solve your problems, find a happy and grateful person around you.
Why? Because everyone around is carrying an emotional baggage today. The person who has managed to be happy, creative, productive and forgiving is not someone imported from Mars, rather they are the brave one fighting all their difficulties and problems with peace.
Yes, with peace.
Being at peace does not come naturally at birth. Like all skills, this is developed by consistent and never ending practice. What seemed difficult becomes a warm up over a period of time.
So there you go peeps, do not go to a creator of problems in search of a solution. Go to someone who has done it, figured it out and guess what? They actually wear the badge of genuine smile on their face as a result of getting through all these difficulties and this is how you will spot those rare diamonds.