Most people use “the in slangs” to define their lives.
So far so good.
Kaand ho gaya.
He has an upper hand.
She is using you as her pawn.
I’m so frustrated by their behaviour.
In so trying to copy the herd they forget that their reality is mimicking their words and then they travel thousands of miles to take blessings from someone.
Every word that we speak and think for ourselves determines our destiny. If you want evidence, look at the vocabulary of the most successful person according to you and shall you witness the evidences without exceptions.
Bless yourself every moment. The change that you seek are the words you need to transform at the level of thinking and speaking.