A lot of people find difficultly in arriving to a solution. Consequently, they end up looking to lot of people for advice, consent and guidance.
Asking for advice is perhaps a bit different from forming relationships.
When we ask for advice, there are two disadvantages:
- We allow someone else’s opinions and perspectives to guide us, which may not necessarily apply to your situation.
- We give them the permission to think we are not focussed, which may be the truth.
So, when next time you are in a fix, don’t take any action immediately. Get quiet with yourself. The companionship that you and silence share is of utmost productivity and clarity, if you give it space to blossom instead of moving away by requesting opinions.
Let go of opinions and advices.
Follow your intuition and chill.