You cannot find a solution to your problems because you are too preoccupied inside of them.
I won’t offer you solutions. You will do that to yourself, once you understand that no one disrespects you or is intending to hurt you.
Everything that people do, is from their point of view. For you, self-compassion is the most important.
People won’t question you, once you stop questioning yourself and trust the process.
And trusting the process works every single time when you begin with trusting yourself.