People can justify why they are selfish and it is well-meant.
Well, because they needed it, of course.
Needed it, or wanted it?
Needed it, or were not strong enough to give?
Needed it, or lacked perspective?
Kindness is super power and it can never be overdone.
Do it, if not for the other person, then for the sake of receiving blessings in lieu of doing.
People travel thousands of miles to seek blessings. While they could or couldn’t continue on it, receiving blessings for kind acts done by them is an underrated success story.