You want to stop fitting in, right?
Then take advice from those who have already stopped fitting in.
Sometimes you don’t know everything. That’s just perfect. Take an expert opinion.
It does not necessarily have to be paid (though sometimes it’s great to have one). All the experts in their niches share a lot of content for free.
A lot. For free.
Gather it, implement it and reflect upon it.
It seems to be a much better option than thinking that your luck holds no fortune.