Focused people don’t say this often

“Can we get on a call?”

“What are you planning to do with your life next?”

“Do you know what they did to me?”

Focus is an asset. Not to be wasted on the trivialities that don’t matter.

PS: Saying the above once a blue moon is a call for help. And perhaps allowed. Saying the above more often than not is a sign of lost focus.

Don’t do that to yourself. Ever.