Signs of selfish people

1. They only talk about themselves. Rarely about you. Never about growth.
2. They want you to pay them complete attention, and if you don’t, taunts don’t stop. But attention from their side is non-existent.
3. They never think of learning as a process. They are the best who they are.
4. Emotional outage (anger, frustration, tears, blackmailing) coupled with lack of listening is an ongoing pattern.
5. They think they have all the problems in the world.
6. They have zero empathy for someone else’s situation, not even their worst situation.
7. Easy to point out your flaws. All of the time. Absolute resistance to talk about their flaws. Invariably all of the time.
8. They think talking about what others lack will magically transform that person. Rarely understand love and acceptance.
9. Easily offended. Almost waiting to.
10. They think you owe them their time. Without them asking for your availability. 🙁
11. They are happy at your achievements, but still subconsciously consider you a nobody
12. They don’t know they are going through all of this.

While you must always be surrounded by people who uplift you, if there is a blood relation that you cannot sever, maybe it is time to reconsider how to stay away from them.