Fiction versus Self-Help

Last week, I read “Regretting You” by Colleen Hoover.

The book turned out to be fantastic. So much depth into the threads that weave through our shared humanity. Quite a nice book. Read it especially if you have a tough time with your parents.

It’s a fiction, and I have recently picked up this genre. Which also led me to running myself through “The Enemy” by Sarah Adams. Quite light and easy read. Cute as well.

As I was reflecting on what has happened for me to never read fiction in 14+ years of my love affair with books, to reading a fiction along with a non-fiction, here is what I conclude:

  1. Fiction helps us believe someone will come into our lives and fix it. Non-fiction gives us that onus.
  2. Fiction tells us each one of us lives in a separate world of our own. Which is the last fictional thing about a fiction.
  3. People want to be validated for who they are. That is the crux of all fiction and non-fiction.
  4. People want to grow and evolve as human beings. Again a common thread amongst all fiction and non-fiction.
  5. Storytelling always remains the most powerful form of connecting with anyone.
  6. A good book does well years, sometimes decades after it has been published.
  7. An authentic author writes a book for themselves.
  8. We all go through our different levels of traumas. But fixing it or being fixated on it is our choice.
  9. The world is full of good people. You just have to be one in order to attract one in your vortex. And I mean non-romantically, too.
  10. Of all ways of getting lost, books are the best.