When people are expecting you, what do they expect?
Do they expect someone who is happy with themselves? Do they expect complains about everything? Do they expect gossip? Do they expect you to vent out your frustrations? Do they expect someone who is stable even within difficulties? Do they expect a fun time? Do they expect a mood swing? Do they expect someone who might be either extremely angry or annoyingly blabbering? Do they expect a peaceful conversation? Do they expect to be heard? Do they expect a mature adult conversation?
People expect from us only what we serve them consistently.
Expectations are the mirrors of our reality.
The reality, is always up to us.