When you are surrounded by people who don’t use their sensibilities and wisdom, you end up having to use yours 10X more. In the process, you become more sensible, smarter, and wiser.
Then there are people with whom you are in complete flow of life. They appreciate what you bring to the table, even if it is your weird self. These are the people that allow you to dance for no reason, they laugh at your jokes, and make you bring out the child within them.
Think of a bad relationship that sucked you to the core. You cannot even fathom dancing around with them. They forced you to become more sensible. But any good relationship is the one who allows your inner child to wander freely.
Your job is to be sensible enough to bring the child out within everyone. When the child is out, sensibility follows. When the child is suppressed, sensibility is a forced outcome, nonetheless a much needed one.
