When people are upset with someone close in their lives, their mind wanders to default replacements of them. If not actually replacing them, but their mind does create pictures of a fantasy where someone else would make them happy.
And what I have learnt is no human being could ever make you fully happy.
Because everyone is striving for their own happiness in their own weird ways.
Even if someone makes you momentarily happy, the more you grow dependent on them, the more that happiness for you becomes a merged misery for both of you.
Thus, spirituality has taught me to learn to be happy with God. He is the ocean of happiness, ocean of love. So always be taking love from Him. Always make Him your source of happiness.
So when you go out there into the world and interact with other human beings, you remember that your role here is to give them happiness which you are consistently, day in and day out, taking from God, the ocean of Happiness.
Take from God. Give to humans. You expect taking from humans is where all happiness turns into a hurdle.
