Few months back I wrote a piece on “Why I never got married“.
It was my straight-from-the heart quip on why I never followed the society.
Despite being an old post, even as on today at least 90% of emails and DMs to me on this topic have followed a similar pattern:
Women: All of them agree. Congratulate me. “You go girl!”
Men: “I think you should consider becoming a glorified educated high earning bai that makes babies too, you would become such a great mother and partner.” My foot toenail. Less than 10% of men reading it like it too, but the rest comments are exactly a replica of this:
My reason to not get married was not my sister’s marriages. Or because I am keeping myself “busy”. But men leave their ability to use ears and brain together back in their mom’s wombs.
Only someone who has not read this piece to understand it, and to understand how a marriage takes the toll only on a girl’s life by making her a glorified bai would write this. Because men don’t read and listen what is right in front of them, they just thopofy.
