When you are a giver by default, you default to giving as a way of life.
Obvious as it sounds, it sometimes becomes acutely dangerous too.
Because life and circumstances sometimes require us to accept the love and care that comes to us from the most genuine people, and not try to balance it out by giving away money or gifts or fruits to them.
Learn to accept the love and time someone pours into you, whenever they pour into you.
Life becomes a quintessentially precious quest when you stop the unconscious game of quid pro quo.