Boys that come from good families.
Boys that go on to have good education.
Boys that apparently their family is proud of.
These are the boys that often go on to damage good girls.
Not perhaps with the intent of damaging them.
But with just the thought of having fun, a side thing, someone to talk to, someone to message, someone to vent out their frustration on, someone to speak to without ever listening to, someone where they just take and take and never give.
Boys that believe that with money and making a few calls to the girl (of course when they are bored) they have earned the right to do anything to this girl’s mental health, emotions and her life. Because hey, according to them, this girl just doesn’t exist. This girl is just a girl who is his “friend”, because you cannot call a less-decent noun to an educated girl.
It is not that these boys intend to damage these girls. But what else do we name this act of selfishness done to cure one’s loneliness temporarily, while permanently damaging the other person?
To do anything wrong to any human being, especially when they trust you is the biggest form of hollowness, selfishness and narcissism. All of which is masked under kindness. And the phone calls this boy makes (always at his own convenience).
Girls, please know that:
- You are allowed to say no. NO. NO. NO. TEN MORE, THEN THOUSAND MORE TIMES NO.
- Boys have this habit of saying things to girls to invoke any emotions from them. It is the girl’s responsibility to have an internal compass so strong that it is impossible to fall prey to these words. A kind girl is kind to herself first. If kindness to others means giving up your inner compass, that is not kindness.
- You might lose a “friend” but you will thank yourself forever. Even after years. Even after DECADES.
- A boy that respects you will never make you question yourself and your existence.
- Any relationship, friendship, or even in family — having differing opinions and disagreements is fine. But to morally kill a human being by calling them their friend but using them for your convenience is something not even animals do.
