Every human being must build systems around resting. Ideally, take an off on the weekends and take a nap in the afternoons.
Wokes might want to say “she is not working as hard, we are working 24*7*365, never resting, and so on.”
Babe, you are not taking an off, that is why your mind did not get space to be relaxed, and hence, it is working 365 days of the year, and still not feeling productive.
With me, each time I am honest and try to put boundaries around my resting time, it is met with disdain and dismissiveness towards them, the person.
Bro, I need rest for myself. It is nothing against you.
Every. Single. Person. hates someone who prioritises well-being over socialising.
So you only find two kinds of people: Who are burnt out. And who say they are burnt out (so they are not accused for resting).
The world will hate you if you do not receive calls, do not socialise, or are actively trying to unplug for your mental peace. But the samosa and chat eating world has also hated on khichdi eating world, just like humans watching TV all night have hated protein bros for hitting the gym consistently.
Care too much about the hate, and you care too little for yourself.
