To everyone around you who loves you + is perpetually miserable in their lives.
You have certainly tried being nice to those, but if one who becomes the centre of attention by their misery does not get that unconscious attention, they are rarely happy for you.
How have I learnt to manage it:
- I do not share my wins with anyone. Tried making exceptions, never works.
- Always have pure vibes and vibes full of blessings for those. We do not know the knocks they had to go through to be this hard. Even if we were not this hard, we may still choose kindness.
That, my friend, is truest kindness.