As we walk out into the world, we just wanna be nice. Nice to everyone. We do not want to hurt anyone. Do not want to bring anyone down. Everyone should be happy with us. All cool.
Or perhaps it isn’t.
Because doing all the above will take a lot of energy out of you since each one has different set of expectations. It is not only difficult rather impossible to meet everyone’s needs.
So the better way is: keep yourself happy. Take care of keeping up with your own expectations. From the point of being centered and focused you create a mirror and a platform for everyone else to be supergreat. That is the biggest service and giving gesture in the world.