The idea is not to check-in on Facebook or create it into your WA / IG story. The idea is to be recognised and validated.
The idea is to be remembered by people. And also to be loved.
The idea is to have a social status that people admire. And probably want to become that in their lives.
The idea, above all, is of connection. Of creating a larger idea when people meet and exchange their energies. Most importantly, of becoming someone new because of that exchange of energy. Well, here is the good news: you can get all of that once you align with the right person: the one in the mirror.
Franz Kafka said, “You do not need to leave your room. Remain sitting at your table and listen. Do not even listen, simply wait, be quiet, still and solitary. The world will freely offer itself to you to be unmasked, it has no choice, it will roll in ecstasy at your feet.”
You just have to be still to get in your own rhythms. You know in your heart how to get connected and how not to drain yourself out. Human beings just have the discernment in stillness.