If each and every action of yours were being monitored by someone who sees you as their role model?
Quite often we take care of our perceived image in front of the world yet fail to acknowledge it when we are all alone. If there is a dissonance between the two, all that is required before you do anything else is to create an alignment.
Let’s understand why: because the real you is the one who is alone. You simply get rewarded in public for what you do in private. You are naked in your own company. Work on that image first and everything will fall in place on the outside.