If there is an urge to change the life, change the life.
Do not wait for externals to do it for you, like:
- better colleagues
- more money
- lighter colour of cupboard
- flatter ab
- lesser taxes
- more time
All the above are relative parameters that do not control what your inputs are going to be and how you are going to function in life.
Oh btw, somehow magically, once you start taking control over the ones that you can, the above relative parameters yield you all their power to influence them.