If you are playing like a real superhero, if you are going to the edges of your limits, you will face a lot more challenges than the normal person.
It is not that you were destined for those challenges, you are destined to follow your bliss.
Your bliss is that part of you that has been aching to be revealed out of you since the day you were born. All the trials, tribulations, unwanted human beings that are coming into your life are simply the scrubbing being done t draw you closer to who you really are.
The more you embrace challenges instead of running away from them, the more you will discover that they do not have the power over you anymore.