You can always spot a difference in the way people live their lives by the way they spend their spare hours.
Some watch movies so they either become actors or end up watching more movies.
Some read books so they end up becoming authors and read even more.
Some follow entrepreneurs and their biographies hence start their own venture of changing the world.
Some watch shows where people burn their lives and cash in irrelevant and harmful substances. So do they.
You are what you surround yourself with. Nothing more. Choose your life by choosing people around you and more than that, becoming that relevant human being.