All you are, is because of two reasons:
1. People you associate with
2. Decisions you make
The decisions you make are primarily the influence of people around you.
So if you want to know how your life would look like in the future, decide deliberately whom you are going to allow in your life and who is a total no-no.
That heartbreak, those colleagues from the previous job you didn’t resonate with, an aunt who is cranky all the time, are all keeping you from the life of your dreams.
They are not to be blamed, because they are simply being the best they could be.
And, if you want to be the best you want to be, you need to release those who do not deserve to be in the vicinity of your best.
Your people (and books, movies, videos, shows) are your future.