Big dreams are cool. They make people do stuff unlike the jobs most people hate going to.
Or they just have to make the excuse. Too tired. Bad boss. Wanna catch up with the web series. Et al.
These reasons are real. Yet they are excuses. If you continue remaining married to the current situation you hate there is no way you can get out of it. Because it is real according to you.
Nature of excuse is lame, no matter how real it is.
Or you may find a different path. To divorce the current truth by dating the new story (business, career, health goals, happiness goals). To go on a date with what seems uncomfortable and right is the beginning of the new story.
And is real and right. Not lame.