In the moment under fire, it’s easy to be burnt up.
Except one thing: it ain’t helping anyone.
It isn’t helping the inducer of fire, and certainly it isn’t helping you.
Do this instead: when you have the urge to shut the fire by being more louder or heated up, just ask yourself:
Is shutting them and being angry your goal?
Is your existence defined to this only?
Even if they are wrong and creating meaningless mess, is being a part of the mess, also mess?
PS: Stand for yourself when you have to, however don’t invest yourself when it’s not required.
And it’s not required 95 percent of the times.