I’m almost always fascinated (in a negative manner) by seeing this mad love among people.
Most simple girls fall into this with guys who keep getting angry at them all the time. Then when the guy does behave well, that comes as a surprise. These mad girls, keep waiting for that surprise moment. I know I have been that mad girl.
It also happens a lot outside of these relationships – at work, for example.
A boss likes an employee who doesn’t perform well. But the employee is very much like the boss in their mannerisms. So the boss is unable to see those flaws – mad love. It is not the love of attraction, but like all other forms of love, it also blinds them.
Is there a solution?
There is no problem that meditation cannot solve. Only problem is the ones in problem laugh off at meditation.