I am going through a tough phase of life lately.
Something that will eventually weed out – like all tough phases do.
However, what I have learnt is that if you have a dysfunctional family, it is best to not tell them your problems.
Deal with it on your own.
Live your life your way.
Solve your problems.
But that’s it.
Live your life.
The dysfunctional family will try to make you make tough decisions.
They will think you are right and everyone else is wrong.
They will want you to be with them, because since you are having problems in your life, no one loves you as much as they do.
They will always think it is your problem, and no one else’s.
They will have zero concept of boundaries.
Love them all you can.
But have your own boundaries.
And what you tolerate.