The years matter. And they don’t

Doing something for years?
The years matter.

Not growing and doing the same things?
The years don’t matter.

Know someone for years?
The years matter.

Don’t share a good bond?
The years don’t matter.

Almost everything we see has a side that no one sees. Which makes it important for us to see and recognise. Because almost every linear theory in our heads also has a parallel theory that’s also true. When we know both, we know both could be true. Saves us from humoungous damage.