My brother is the most secure and supportive husband ever. It makes me proud to see him being this chivalric to his wife.
You know what the best part is?
No one in our family has been as good partner as he is.
I am sure there are certain flaws in him. I am more than sure he is far from the definition of perfect if I were to define him. However, he is a great husband too, if I may say from a distance.
Now, he could have it in his blood to carry on the family lineage of the subtle art of not caring about your wife. However, he has the wisdom to be the right person to his wife, mostly by having conversations together.
It turns out, when you are hurt you have two options:
Option 1: Become more like the person who hurt you. It is so unconscious that even the smartest fall into that trap unless aware.
Option 2: Become someone who would never hurt another like you were. It is equivalent to becoming an Angel after being raised by those who were anything but one.
So, no, hurt people don’t hurt people. Hurt people pass on a choice. To be a carbon copy to them or be a counter to them.
Wisdom is always ours to take care of.
