What confidence is not

  • Charisma without substance
  • Loud voice
  • Entitlement
  • Demeaning others
  • Stating your claims as modus operandi of the world

All of the above are masks disguised as confidence.

True confidence includes but is not limited to:

  • Being kind (and meaning it)
  • Being happy for others’ happiness (even though you might want to be envious)
  • Being curious instead of being judgemental
  • Letting people be
  • Staying true to your word
  • Bringing a positive energy into every room you walk into
  • Having a standard so high that people run away from doing anything mediocre around you

Confidence is having the courage to show up, each time it isn’t easy to.