We all want to change: change our destructive habits, change our sleeping patterns, change the way we think about occurring in office, change the way we allow our mind to wander distances that distract, yet any idea why are we not able to do it?
Because we hang around with same negative people and expect geometrically positive results.
You are the result of 5 people you spend your time with. Focus on changing your associations and there is no way you cannot change.
That is how change happens. Not by gossiping around with the same energy drainers, over, and over again.