“Why did this happen to me?” is not a wise question, because it calls you to be the victim.
Instead, just go through the trauma that difficult situation brought. Yes, please go through that trauma because that is going to make you more compassionate, more empathetic, and a better human being who navigates through darkness in search of their own light.
If no one else around you tells you to do so, remember that because they haven’t healed their own trauma / hurt / pain / suffering so far, they know only little.
Use your voice and platform to be the epitome of energy you were always destined to be.