If they complain a lot, they have and are going through a lot of pain.
If they are graceful, grateful and radiating with optimism, they have and are going through a lot of pain…
…with a slight difference:
The second category of people have refused to give away their remote control of happiness to disturbing events of the past and distractions of the present. They are too focussed on working on their inner self, there is no room left for blaming and gossiping around.
Anyone you see today who smiles a lot and is the most powerful person around you, has gone through and thrived amidst the lows which the majority eats up in watching Netflix.