Talk to a therapist

Someone I trust really well, said I need to talk to my therapist on working on XX issue, that comes up again and again.

I calmed myself down, and asked them if they could help pointing out when did it last happen.

They said a year ago.

If we respect each other as people, are we not supposed to bring out what brings us down – even if it is once a year?
If we respect someone really, do we tell them to visit their therapist in the heat of the moment?
If we really respect someone, do we not have a responsibility to be loveful towards them when they screw up?

If at all you have to ask someone to get a professional help, it would help to say it when they are happy and have ears to hear it.