Ladies, we could do better!

One of my closest friend in school brought up this topic once. We were just seated in our bus after school, and were waiting for everyone else to come.

“Nishtha,” she said, “you know what, I am ashamed to admit it, however it’s true a woman is another woman’s biggest enemy.”

Years later, her words are making me reflect deeply these days.

We talk about gender inequality, equal rights for women at home, sharing of responsibilities at home, etc., and yes men do need to wake and shake themselves up, however a lot of women don’t feel they deserve the good that men are entitled to.

So, if you are someone (man or a woman) who believes in equality, start with not saying these five things to any woman you respect or would want to be respected.

It’ll make the world better for your daughters and sisters.

Ten things never to say to women

Ten things we should never say to women:

  1. How much money do you make?
  2. Here, take my credit card.
  3. What will you gain by learning sports?
  4. When are you planning to get married, all good guys will run out…
  5. Get a facial regularly to look beautiful (lolll, wasn’t beauty an inner function)
  6. Instead of (current) career, try this. It will help you settle down.
  7. If you can make time to go to the gym daily, why can’t you do household chores?
  8. You should try taking a class in Bollywood dance.
  9. You should quit what you are doing right now, because you’ve failed once.
  10. You cook really well, your husband will be a lucky man…
  11. (Bonus): I will drive the car.

And the NO-NO of all, speaking in a loud, dominating voice.

It breaks my heart to see that a LOT of educated, well-respected in corporate lives men do a lot of these. They won’t be able to control the women who want to live on their own terms, however, only end up losing their own respect.

Lesson: Chill, bro! Use the big thing in your skull called the brain.