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And then you realise, the best way to deal with self doubt is to create your confidence in isolation without worrying about what others think of you.
And that’s awesome 🙂
Of course it is!
So are other 364 days as well.
Provided you don’t lose enthusiasm over yourself like the rest of the world does.
Every day is a day to form new habits, create a new system, and make yourself proud.
Only if we choose to do it.
Yesterday I had a usual meeting with my boss, and he told me to not worry about work.
He also offered to back me up for my work, and was glad I took some time to reflect.
I, in fact, offered to do some work today since I was offered in the evening, and he refused.
Bestest boss ever!!
An Uber/Ola comes to your place, and then you self-drive.
The cab waale Bhaiyas press brake without pressing the clutch or reducing the gear.
Almost every ride is a roller coaster ride.
Bro, this is how you do it:
In case of an automatic car, start from step 2.
It is such a simple exercise of driving with finesse, that a lot of people happen to skip it out.
It’s easy bro, super easy!
Dear Mumbai People,
Please wear boots/sneakers along with socks, not heels.
Thank you
A Delhi-ite
A call dropping off is a sign from the Universe that you don’t need to call back 🙂
A friend not talking is a sign of the Universe that you are not friends anyway.
A tight tee is a sign from the Universe that you need to lose more than the weight.
Signs are simply intuitions coming to life.
I’m going through a lot of emotions right now, so best to document them here:
This morning I had an undeniable urge to eat sugar. Chocolate cake + cold coffee to be precise.
With only one problem: Had I baked the chocolate cake, I would have to eat it daily.
Not that eating it is a problem, rather I’d love it!
The only problem being, it is not good for the health, baby 🙂
So I made myself a chocolate shake, and sipped it with a laddoo.
Sweet for the day, and no sweets for tomorrow. Win-win!!
As on date, I’m having roughly 3-4 book ideas.
I was struggling with which one to pick. 2-3 had great potential on selling THE moment I picked them up. One, which is the closest to my heart, will sell way better than these, if I market them right.
Guess which one did I pick?
The quick sell one or the huge sell one close to the heart?
Sometimes I get happy with good things happening.
Sometimes I get upset with not-so-good things happening.
Don’t like this contingent part of mine.
Will get there soon. To be at ease.
I am, btw, at ease for most things that used to disturb me, and that’s an achievement.
You are a rockstar NG, and keep that up 🙂
I asked my therapist, “What if I tell myself that it is okay if someone responded in a bad manner? They might as well be suffering, right?”
She said:
Of course, it is a good thing to run a marathon.
But the best runners, train themselves before the event.
However, if you go haven’t trained yourself at all and you get up one day and go run, can you imagine what all pain will you endure?
And now imagine how long have you been running this marathon!
So the way to be actually able to run that marathon is to train our brain, to understand our emotions first, and why we feel in the pain.
Otherwise, it is only a continuous run of pain, not a marathon in reality.
Something really deep to reflect upon.
Envy is not going to make you successful, baby! So don’t do that.
It is that simple 🙂
Wishing for the best.
And being the best.
And never any less
Is true success.
Think over it for a moment.
Authenticity
Wanting others to succeed
Communicating
Working with ethics
Rooting for others’ success (Most won’t, even if it appears that they do)
Have you seen those celebrities showing gifts given to them by merchants – in their Insta stories?
I also felt the same, when a client sent me his protein shake, hot chocolate and tea as a token of gratitude for our working engagement together.
Mazaa aa gaya 🙂
However, beyond that, there were some cool customer relationship things that I learnt:
On that note, protein shakes are being consumed by yours truly after workout and hot chocolate will be used for baking cake. And since it is pre-ready masala tea (containing milk powder as well) – which my Mom doesn’t like, so offered it to a friend who also loves such premium products.
Win-win 🙂
Writing good content is understanding psychology.
Winning at a game is understanding psychology.
Eating less is understanding your own psychology.
Life is psychology, but we don’t admit it because we don’t understand psychology. Pure psychology 🙂
Before you decide to keep someone happy, make sure your happiness is aligned…
Before you decide to get angry at someone, make sure you have let go of your anger on yourself…
Before you choose to judge someone, make sure you are understanding that you aren’t doing a right thing either, by putting yourself on a higher pedestal…
Before you decide to eat one more mithai, make sure you are living a healthy lifestyle already…
Before you decide to stay up late, make sure this is a rarity…
TIL:
1. Being right is better than being nice.
2. You can be kind still be right.
3. People would rather work for a competent boss who is difficult, than an incompetent nice person (this one is copy pasted from my boss).