- You think
- You introspect
- You work better
Thus, to work better, it happens to take breaks more often.
What happens when you take breaks
- You think
- You introspect
- You work better
Thus, to work better, it happens to take breaks more often.
The three stages of writing
First stage: Penning down your thoughts
Second stage: Editing them
Third stage: Understanding the readers’ psychology
Rinse and repeat
It’s all about psychology
Writing good content is understanding psychology.
Winning at a game is understanding psychology.
Eating less is understanding your own psychology.
Life is psychology, but we don’t admit it because we don’t understand psychology. Pure psychology 🙂
Chilled out tonality
I am usually very chilled out in life however when it comes to work I really want to it done. Mostly because it has my signature on it.
For example, the website will go live tomorrow however my boss had a chilled out tonality while giving a loom feedback. Yes nothing would go live without his heads up however the knowledge that nothing would change if you worry about it – is something I gotta copy from my boss.
Not sure tbh. Maybe this sense of urgency also drives me and my team. However, we will figure it out 🙂
Why I love this blog
This blog is something I do not popularise much about.
I write here religiously.
From the heart.
Without worrying about the algorithm.
And even what so called friends would say.
Here I come to write my heart.
What I am feeling today.
Maybe it is transient.
Like everything else is.
But, it writing what I am feeling in the moment, helps me heal.
Isn’t it the reason why we all are here?
To heal.
We may not accept it, but in order for a huge part of our life to glow, we have to go through the messy process of vacuum cleaning so that everything that emerges is flawless.
Anyway, if at all you must do something ever, it is to write your blog.
Not to grow your following.
Not to show any vanity.
Rather, to pour your heart out.
To write content that you wish no one read, other than you.
And you will come at a place, where you won’t regret it.
Trust me!
Why do we get sad?
The reason for getting sad is never the real reason.
The loss.
The no.
The rejection.
The lack.
The “never”.
These are not the real reasons. They are just drapes to cover up the original reasons.
The real reason is we are crying for something deeper.
We believe we don’t matter.
We think that our work doesn’t make an impact.
Or our presence doesn’t make anyone happy.
Or that everything will be happy even if we left.
Or perhaps that there will never be a tomorrow.
That is the real thing that makes us sad.
Think through it about what made you sad recently.
The reason was one of these.
However, the truth of life is this:
YOU matter.
YOU are important.
YOUR work makes a difference.
YOUR absence would make things difficult.
YOU are needed.
This holds true irrespective of what ANYONE tells you.
Pause for a moment to read this.
Lessons of life
1. Speak your truth.
2. Ask for feedback.
3. Play Plot 4 with Mom 🙂
Law of attraction :)
Law of attraction says that if you are looking for a partner, keep the seat next to you empty.
Thus, I purposefully do NOT keep the seat next to me empty 🙂
Lessons of life
1. Keep your good work.
2. Check before leaving (I bought full moong dal instead of broken).
3. No one will respect you unless you respect yourself.