That weird thing happened years ago.
Someone played with your heart 12 years ago.
Someone threw you out of their life 11 years ago.
Someone told you that you were not needed, 10 years ago.
Learn the lessons, forget the memory.
Allow yourself to heal, but do not allow that person again.
Be at peace and ease with past, but do not allow it to add to the present its cast.
Yesterday I had a usual meeting with my boss, and he told me to not worry about work.
He also offered to back me up for my work, and was glad I took some time to reflect.
I, in fact, offered to do some work today since I was offered in the evening, and he refused.
Bestest boss ever!!
An Uber/Ola comes to your place, and then you self-drive.
The cab waale Bhaiyas press brake without pressing the clutch or reducing the gear.
Almost every ride is a roller coaster ride.
Bro, this is how you do it:
- Press the clutch
- Simultaneously reduce the gear
- Then press the brake.
In case of an automatic car, start from step 2.
It is such a simple exercise of driving with finesse, that a lot of people happen to skip it out.
It’s easy bro, super easy!
A call dropping off is a sign from the Universe that you don’t need to call back 🙂
A friend not talking is a sign of the Universe that you are not friends anyway.
A tight tee is a sign from the Universe that you need to lose more than the weight.
Signs are simply intuitions coming to life.
I’m going through a lot of emotions right now, so best to document them here:
- If a friend takes a serious revenge on a friend’s prank, it is time to reconsider that friendship.
- The best way to avoid gossip is to avoid gossip.
- It takes just one conversation to drain your energy for the entire day. It takes spending time nurturing yourself to be away from that conversation.
- If you do not deal with what’s troubling you, you will figure out a way to blurt it out. Deal with your mess.
- Forgive, without being asked for. Because you need peace in your own life.
As on date, I’m having roughly 3-4 book ideas.
I was struggling with which one to pick. 2-3 had great potential on selling THE moment I picked them up. One, which is the closest to my heart, will sell way better than these, if I market them right.
Guess which one did I pick?
The quick sell one or the huge sell one close to the heart?
I asked my therapist, “What if I tell myself that it is okay if someone responded in a bad manner? They might as well be suffering, right?”
Of course, it is a good thing to run a marathon.
But the best runners, train themselves before the event.
However, if you go haven’t trained yourself at all and you get up one day and go run, can you imagine what all pain will you endure?
And now imagine how long have you been running this marathon!
So the way to be actually able to run that marathon is to train our brain, to understand our emotions first, and why we feel in the pain.
Otherwise, it is only a continuous run of pain, not a marathon in reality.
Something really deep to reflect upon.
1. Taking no breaks
2. Taking others’ PoVs seriously
3. Not taking time to reflect