Tag: change

Success

Don’t get inspired…

Don’t get inspired by people’s success on social media, their blue tick, the content they create, how much money they make, what all they have done, etc.

Rather, get inspired by their courage, the vibes they give, the joy you feel being around them, and most importantly, how much do you get to execute from them to their lives.

Worshipping people is easy.
Because it puts blinders on our wisdom and makes us pure devotees.
Getting inspired by their hard work is tough.
Because now you will have to put in that hard work as well.

Life

4 life lessons that will change your life

  • Take breaks while working, and stretch
  • Sleep well AND on time – and you will be the most beautiful person
  • You can help others only when you help yourself
  • Get out and get some green time
Thoughts

Intense need of a blog

I’m going through a lot of emotions right now, so best to document them here:

  1. If a friend takes a serious revenge on a friend’s prank, it is time to reconsider that friendship.
  2. The best way to avoid gossip is to avoid gossip.
  3. It takes just one conversation to drain your energy for the entire day. It takes spending time nurturing yourself to be away from that conversation.
  4. If you do not deal with what’s troubling you, you will figure out a way to blurt it out. Deal with your mess.
  5. Forgive, without being asked for. Because you need peace in your own life.
Fitness, Happiness

Resisting sugar craving

This morning I had an undeniable urge to eat sugar. Chocolate cake + cold coffee to be precise.

With only one problem: Had I baked the chocolate cake, I would have to eat it daily.

Not that eating it is a problem, rather I’d love it!

The only problem being, it is not good for the health, baby 🙂

So I made myself a chocolate shake, and sipped it with a laddoo.

Sweet for the day, and no sweets for tomorrow. Win-win!!

Time

Over time…

Over time what made you cry, you begin to start looking forward to it.

Over time, what was difficult, you begin to find ease in it.

Over time, what you used to expect, you begin to find acceptance in lack of expectations met.

Over time, the money you used to dream of, you begin to be happy despite more of that money.

Over time, what used to make you happy, you begin to find happiness without it.

Over time, what used to make you angry, now makes you the most peaceful person.

Over time, as time changes, for good and only good, it changes us as well!

Knowing Yourself

Envy

Envy is not going to make you successful, baby! So don’t do that.

It is that simple 🙂

Wishing for the best.
And being the best.
And never any less
Is true success.

Think over it for a moment.

Thoughts

Why you feel demotivated

1. Taking no breaks

2. Taking others’ PoVs seriously

3. Not taking time to reflect

Knowing Yourself

Some confessions

  1. I love to go through my good work – once or twice more. And then, I forget about it 🙂
  2. I keep giving my parents more chances. But, sometimes you have to detach and love together.
  3. People hardly surprise you. They are simply judging you to not follow your intuition.
Manager

Chilled out tonality

I am usually very chilled out in life however when it comes to work I really want to it done. Mostly because it has my signature on it.

For example, the website will go live tomorrow however my boss had a chilled out tonality while giving a loom feedback. Yes nothing would go live without his heads up however the knowledge that nothing would change if you worry about it – is something I gotta copy from my boss.

Not sure tbh. Maybe this sense of urgency also drives me and my team. However, we will figure it out 🙂

Manager

Making of a Manager

TIL:

1. Being right is better than being nice.

2. You can be kind still be right.

3. People would rather work for a competent boss who is difficult, than an incompetent nice person (this one is copy pasted from my boss).

Clients

How I work with clients

  1. I ask a lot of questions. Nothing would be clear to their audience if it is not clear to me.
  2. Work in advance – schedule entire content in advance. Prevents last-minute unwanted stress.
  3. Give more than I am paid for. I charge high prices, but always make sure they are getting more than what I had committed to. Win-win for both 🙂
Emotions

Less known reasons why you are suffering

  1. You want people to love you on posting your insta photos, and yet you do not want to understand people at the root, for who they are.
  2. You find solace in more meetings and less solo execution.
  3. You think therapy without taking responsibility of your life will heal you.
  4. You think you can be your raw, unpolished self and yet have all the love in the world.
  5. You want to have incremental money every month, and that in itself, is a trap.
  6. You want people to love your insta stories, while secretly hating the people whose approval you crave for.
  7. You know you are not okay, and all your efforts are directed towards showing that you are okay, instead of healing the un-okay part of you.
Life

Life lessons that come the hard way

  1. Do not express your emotions when too happy or too sad.
  2. Work towards being on the middle path.
  3. Make sure you don’t cry. Please.
Life

The biggest facts of life

Your parents do not give you time as a kid, and want you to return that vacuum with heart full of love.

Your tears lay the foundation of your highest successess.

The most important journey you will ever take, is to be in a good mood.

Writing

Why everyone should write

  1. Because you let go of your internal issues
  2. You tend to think clearly
  3. You become a better speaker
  4. You don’t need validation from others.
  5. You find peace in your own company
Life

5 phrases that are said less often

1. Help

2. It’s okay!

3. I am sorry.

4. I’ll go meditate now.

5. You’re doing a great job.

Self Love, Truth be told

Why do we get sad?

The reason for getting sad is never the real reason.

The loss.
The no.
The rejection.
The lack.
The “never”.

These are not the real reasons. They are just drapes to cover up the original reasons.

The real reason is we are crying for something deeper.
We believe we don’t matter.
We think that our work doesn’t make an impact.
Or our presence doesn’t make anyone happy.
Or that everything will be happy even if we left.
Or perhaps that there will never be a tomorrow.

That is the real thing that makes us sad.

Think through it about what made you sad recently.
The reason was one of these.

However, the truth of life is this:


YOU matter.
YOU are important.
YOUR work makes a difference.

YOUR absence would make things difficult.

YOU are needed.

This holds true irrespective of what ANYONE tells you.

Pause for a moment to read this.

Time

What’s the price of that Netflix special?

Attention

Focus

Peace

Sleep

Rest

Books

Reflection

Could we be asking for any more?

Family

Things NEVER to do with parents

1. Never touch their nerves. Just listen.

2. Do your own thing. Even if they aren’t happy, you can never make anyone happy if you aren’t.

3. Don’t tell them your struggles. While you will move on, they will stay married to it.

Though most people won’t agree to it, if their parents won’t see them, they would still be agreeing to it.

Self Love

Law of attraction :)

Law of attraction says that if you are looking for a partner, keep the seat next to you empty.

Thus, I purposefully do NOT keep the seat next to me empty 🙂