- Be unkind to them.
- Do not respond to their messages/emails.
- Be rigid in asking for things you need from them.
In the short term, it feels like the best thing to do.
In reality, it hurts no one but the doer.
Tag: work
It’s over
That weird thing happened years ago.
Someone played with your heart 12 years ago.
Someone threw you out of their life 11 years ago.
Someone told you that you were not needed, 10 years ago.
Learn the lessons, forget the memory.
Allow yourself to heal, but do not allow that person again.
Be at peace and ease with past, but do not allow it to add to the present its cast.
Don’t get inspired…
Don’t get inspired by people’s success on social media, their blue tick, the content they create, how much money they make, what all they have done, etc.
Rather, get inspired by their courage, the vibes they give, the joy you feel being around them, and most importantly, how much do you get to execute from them to their lives.
Worshipping people is easy.
Because it puts blinders on our wisdom and makes us pure devotees.
Getting inspired by their hard work is tough.
Because now you will have to put in that hard work as well.
Meeting with my boss
Yesterday I had a usual meeting with my boss, and he told me to not worry about work.
He also offered to back me up for my work, and was glad I took some time to reflect.
I, in fact, offered to do some work today since I was offered in the evening, and he refused.
Bestest boss ever!!
4 life lessons that will change your life
- Take breaks while working, and stretch
- Sleep well AND on time – and you will be the most beautiful person
- You can help others only when you help yourself
- Get out and get some green time
Don’t let your dreams die
Most people don’t want to support your dreams – even if on the outside they appear to.
Most people want you to work for their dreams.
Sad, but true.
Work, but work for yourself as well.
And you shall never sleep unhappily.
Virtues of a true leader
Authenticity
Wanting others to succeed
Communicating
Working with ethics
Rooting for others’ success (Most won’t, even if it appears that they do)
Why you feel demotivated
1. Taking no breaks
2. Taking others’ PoVs seriously
3. Not taking time to reflect
Some confessions
- I love to go through my good work – once or twice more. And then, I forget about it 🙂
- I keep giving my parents more chances. But, sometimes you have to detach and love together.
- People hardly surprise you. They are simply judging you to not follow your intuition.
Why you MUST take an off
Even though you love your work,
Even though you feel energised,
Even though your boss is super-supportive by not micromanaging you
You must take an off on the weekends and on the festivals.
Because things that are meant to be enjoyed and relished are the things that are meant to be enjoyed and relished.
There is no substitute to not spending time with yourself and reflecting, because only in emptiness you get to understand yourself.
Which makes you all the more productive when you return to work.