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Love is not just romantic love, in fact that is selfishness.
Love is, our natural nature.
Love is, the reason we all are here.
Elite Wiesel said, “The opposite of love is not hate, the opposite of love is indifference.”
So when you are indifferent towards a human being, you’re not giving them love.
Love, that you are made up of, you’re restricting yourself of it.
How will that create any goodness for you?
Starting with “to get something” is a dangerous place to be, because it makes you vulnerable.
Start with giving relentlessly.
Without the intention of receiving.
Without worrying about whether they’ll give you what you want.
Just with the intention of making their world better.
Why to do that, you may ask.
Because in order to let them decide freely and give it to you, you really need to let them know that you care. Like your parents did, and you’re ready to do anything for them, right?
Simplest ways geniuses become average:
1. Trading time for waiting for a text message response from someone who probably doesn’t care.
2. Trading your time for the use of devices, versus creating your own journey.
3. Trading your time for something that may be important for society however does not fit into your definition of awesomeness.
Wastage of resources is banned. How about wastage of time?
There was not just one instance that drew me away from you.
I was there happily and honesty for you, even after you were rude to me once. And that turned into twice. And thrice. And ten times.
On the tenth time, I really understood that maybe my permanence in your life is not something you really value that much.
So I decided to remove my permanence from your life.
Not to teach you a lesson, I didn’t have that right anymore, had to cede that right without me being aware of it.
I removed myself because I was not able to respect myself every time I looked at the way you took me for granted.
So instead of begging at your door for the eleventh time, I knocked my own door for the first time.
And wow!!! My heart opened space for me to blossom, like it had been signaling me for years.
Thank you, you, for removing my permanence from your life. Thank you.
Yesterday I slept for 10 hours. Five in the noon and five at night.
Today morning, I looked tired as if not slept for 50 hours.
So here’s the conclusion with more:
1. More quantity of sleep makes you look like a 32 year old. Right quantity of sleep makes you look like a 20 year old. Less than right sleep makes you look like a 35 year old.
2. Talking more with your bff that you don’t do your work will not be good for you or your friendship. Chit chatting with random stuff you share is perfect. Not at all staying in contact is worst.
3. Telling your parents of ventures you intend to do is dangerous, they’ll be scared. Talking with them, is perfect. Having zero communication: no Bro, not at all.
4. Working too hard: you won’t be able to work at all. Working at an optimum level that challenges you: perfect. Not at all working leads to boredom.
Extremes are lethal. The middle route that challenges you, is the one that will sustain you.
The most underrated and most powerful tool to high performance: rest.
It could be great to get out of your ego and make time for resting.
It’s okay if you don’t post for it. It’s okay if you don’t want to tell others about it.
It’s absolutely okay if you want to see how it works.
Because it does. Like any other relationship, if you are committed with rest, it will make you happier.
Gone are the days when DM used to be used for poking. Now it is used for networking.
Maybe or maybe not with the intention of making the sale, however definitely with the intent of forming meaningful connections.
With that, DMs have some inevitable rules, like:
Do’:
1. Use the first name (with correct spelling).
2. Do a research in their profile.
3. Follow them or send them a connection request instead of sending the DM straight away.
Don’t:
1. Copy paste a standard DM with name replaced, people sniff honesty miles away.
2. Ask for the sale straight away (please).
3. Ask them to visit your profile. (If you are engaging enough, they will, eventually.)
With that, just remember one thing: Anyone can be a pro-DMer (yes, I just used that word), whether they are an introvert or extrovert.
As long as you are interested in the other person and digging out the gold in them and being respectful, you’ll be a pro (with practice of course).