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Starting with “to get something” is a dangerous place to be, because it makes you vulnerable.
Start with giving relentlessly.
Without the intention of receiving.
Without worrying about whether they’ll give you what you want.
Just with the intention of making their world better.
Why to do that, you may ask.
Because in order to let them decide freely and give it to you, you really need to let them know that you care. Like your parents did, and you’re ready to do anything for them, right?
People tend to shout when they don’t get what they asked for.
People tend to shout when they feel insecure about what they have and don’t have.
Insecurity
Anger
People not behaving according to you
People saying mean things behind (and in front of you)
People blaming you for their mistakes
Your competitor getting ahead of you even they started after you
All these things are going to happen.
The only job people are going to get done when they shout is, scare more people and make them aware of being around you.
If that’s not the destination you want to reach, probably being patient and kind could do the deal.
Like they always do.
There was not just one instance that drew me away from you.
I was there happily and honesty for you, even after you were rude to me once. And that turned into twice. And thrice. And ten times.
On the tenth time, I really understood that maybe my permanence in your life is not something you really value that much.
So I decided to remove my permanence from your life.
Not to teach you a lesson, I didn’t have that right anymore, had to cede that right without me being aware of it.
I removed myself because I was not able to respect myself every time I looked at the way you took me for granted.
So instead of begging at your door for the eleventh time, I knocked my own door for the first time.
And wow!!! My heart opened space for me to blossom, like it had been signaling me for years.
Thank you, you, for removing my permanence from your life. Thank you.
We could emulate a ton of failures right here, right now.
Here’s the root cause where they emerge from: failure to give.
Generosity is one of the biggest steps to becoming huge (and also monetising) in life.
If you don’t give before becoming huge, it is equivalent to your parents not loving you because you didn’t do any of your activities as a toddler.
They gave, and that’s why they have earned your respect and your love forever.
In search of life,
I settled for death
Why ask others
When after murdering my own happiness
I am suffering the pain of its death
In search of life,
I settled for death
The above is an excerpt from my book “Fit Doesn’t Fit: Why not fitting into the world is The Best Thing for You and the World”
The only purpose behind me writing this book was to let people like you and me, who are wandering in search of happiness, yet know the only person responsible for happiness is the person in the mirror.
Yes, there are people who shattered you from the core.
Yes, there are people who tried to bring out the worst in you.
Yes, despite all this, no one understands you.
This book is an attempt to bring that understanding not TO you, rather FOR you, because you deserve it. Your life is not randomly allowed to be wasted by anyone.
You matter. Stop fitting in.
The ebook is available here and Paperback is available here.
What’s better? It’s available globally, outside India readers do check your local Amazon sites, because I want my global community to be benefitted.
Wish you all all the peace, friends. Stop fitting in. Be an Unfit.
Love for the work is blind.
When you fall in love with that kind of work, you just cannot live without executing it.
And unless you’ve found that kind of work, “keep looking, and don’t settle,” said the legendary Steve Jobs.
You will definitely find that kind of love when you do work superhard and know what you are made up of, and made for.